Q: What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why? Are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have?
A: Strong, authorative, but caring and nurtuting. He needs to be a good communicator and willing to interact with me frequently. I have learned much about myself over the last few years and I have certain emotional needs that I must have met. I have a fear at my core of being abandoned and it brings me a lot of anxiety. I need a partner that can see that anxiety for what it is and help me address it, not add to it.