Q: Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission? What is your relationship to it? Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have some other type of relationship with it?
A: Pain through spankings and play are a part of my submission. My Sir is a bit of a sadist and I am discovering that I enjoy experiencing it. I am very fortunate that I have a Sir who is mindful of my limits and boundaries. I bruise easily and that is something my husband does not enjoy seeing on me. In a polyamorous relationship, you have to be mindful of the limits your primary partner needs to feel comfortable with the relationship. I like seeing the smarks on my skin, but alas I choose to please my husband and submit to him on this matter. Such is the life of a submissive girl.